Traveling

Traveling can be a tricky thing.  There are a few things that can totally tip the scale on whether or not one has a good experience.  The language barrier can be a problem, as can culture shock, loneliness, and timidity.  However, it is my opinion that the biggest problem that can make traveling terrible is personal attitude.  I have learned that I would rather risk going to a big city like Rome by myself than go with a group of people that not only are unwilling to experience Italy but also don't have the same spirit of adventure as myself.  When in Italy, one should always be willing to embrace new things, take risks, challenge yourself to be as independent and self-reliable as possible and when that's not possible, be willing to ask for help.  If you expect to find the USA in a foreign country, then you should probably just stay home.  Yes there are McDonald's and yes it can be frustrating when no one speaks English, but you're in Italy!  Instead of eating somewhere like McD's, find a trattoria!  Be willing to put your phone away for a day and walk around!  Believe me, even with limited Italian, people WILL help you!

I was able to get out and travel this weekend.  I went to Orvieto where my friend is studying and living and I was able to socialize with Americans and Italians both.  I had a fun time in Orvieto.  The town is BEAUTIFUL; the quintessential fortressed, hilltop Italian town.  The Duomo there is breathtaking and the gelato is delicious.  My friend was generous and shares the same desire to explore Italy that I do.  I also was able to appreciate better the family I live with and to understand exactly how personal attitude can shape one's experience of traveling.

I was also able to go to Rome!  I was SO excited and the moment we began walking around the city, I felt so alive!  Rome is such an ancient city; the history, the culture, the sights, sounds, smells: incredible! Unfortunately, we didn't have much time but I enjoyed walking around and seeing the different people, the street vendors, and the city itself.  I had a pleasant, if not costly, lunch and though it took a long time, I viewed it as part of my Roman experience.  I was able to visit the Trevi Fountain and see all the places that I want to explore next time I go.  I also realized that I would rather risk going by myself next time then be with people that don't share the same opinion on traveling as I do.  I'm not afraid of being spontaneous and alone, but I am afraid of missing out on an adventure because other people aren't willing to explore.

So, when traveling, it is my advice that you are either with people that share the exact same outlook as yourself, or be brave and have an adventure by yourself!